"Boy more and more feminization, have you already discovered?"Recently, 《 newspaper in Sichuan 》associately Sichuan is on-line to launch to report a net of survey.Boy feminization phenomenon at worth worry of present condition back, actually what is the reason ?We again should how reply?The connection of school, family, society and this phenomenon exactly how?A period of time comes, this topic already arouse all aspects of deep concern.Recently, quick male's"Luo beautiful tower"'s widely popular network's many audiences discover that Wei in Hunan sees 2010"is happy male voice"s each big match area appears to be dressed in colorful silk stockings, every kind of length skirt, boots and turns the participant of fine eye make-up, the carriage has already bordered on bewitchingly beautiful.Be among them been called the quick male of "still elder sister" by the net friend, the whole body"Luo beautiful tower" attires and immediately becomes a red network person.There is net friend that said, Wei in Hunan sees last year quickly the female choose "once elder brother" and came out "still elder sister" of"Niang son" this year, true"yin and yang out of tune".Sichuan's on-line net friend to this announce to comment on to take into analytical:All say that the present girl is different from a girl, the boy is different from a boy, on being popular cultural influence, allow neuter gender to turn popular culture on TV the program last deluge, little boy and breeze mimicry.Two is a general little boy to living intelligence and emotion to develop than my daughter late some,mens sunglasses the girl is been a model by the tree, the boy cans not gets over a long period of time approbation, teacher and parent for simplifying matters, takes care of a boy with a "lovely" word, girl's sense of superiority hence is stronger, cause vicious cycle, the girl struts about, the boy shows weak, become campus vogue.Three is the whole kid's park and primary school, men and women teacher proportion severity out of tune, kid's park is basic have no male teacher, primary school male the teacher is also quite a little, the male approbation is low.The boy's woe of today will be the whole woe with social of tomorrow.The boy likes that the small Luan of Sichuan's on-line net friend of floss toy figurine tells a reporter, front segment time, she ascends a grade six son to always pack a small floss toy figurine in schoolbag, her son calls the boys of school all like to take this toy and mostly still like mimicry little Chen Yang of sissy, to this, she is very worried.Boy why feminization?Mental state in University of Chengdu health education director, Lu, in the center frequently say, first, along with half China is female over several centuries the exaltation, male pre-eminent image of position have already disappeared gradually.Secondly, at numerous only a kid's family, parent easily to boy the son form excesssive protection.Educate at school in, the big class teaching makes the teacher request a student"quiet", "obedient", valuing result of result too much can be to sacrifice time of sport and innovation activity, but accept the characteristic of sex study and girl to went with should, but and boy's disposition serious conflict.To this, Sichuan's on-line net friend one Hong realizes very profoundly, the last primary school of her son is grade two heel male the classmate ratio row action slightly big 1:00, be been scathing by the teacher to criticize, not only please to a parent, but also make the kid left to promise right assurance, otherwise would ever how.The little boy frightens the atmosphere doesn't dare, from now on had no again a male kid of just brave spirit.The viewpoint of a net friend of Sina is:Being not the male's kid to have a problem was the irregularity that educates a system to more and more highlight.Male atmosphere imperfection of campus network survey medium, on the choice of factor in the school, the data of "teacher men and women's proportion hangs extremely, male atmosphere imperfection" and"the school educates worship of recite from memory memory ability, expression description ability etc. all move so much with boy of characteristics mutually conflict" almost holds even.The reporter random investigates into a few primary schools of city, the teachers regards female teacher as principle, the male teacher mainly serves as the teacher of science, information technique and athletics category, male the form master is more rare.The circumstance of kid's park allows of no optimism more.The principle of one province class demonstration kid's park tells a reporter, kid's park once invited as well male the teacher was really liked by kid in the skill body, but liquidity very big, "they felt that the development isn't good, still keeps wanting to have a higher platform."The boy small Hong tells a reporter, in the time of grade six primary school the form master changes a male teacher, usually take the classmates to play basketball together, and is as very intimate as the boys, other class of of the boy envy them very much."Elder brother Qiao, very great!"The boys like new form master very much, nature also very"obedient".Some schools has already had more self-conscious understanding to this, for example, become citied salt street the primary school organize a male teacher to be "pair form master", let male all of the teacher participate in a class to manage in, possibly increment male the contact of the teacher and kid.The Lu frequently thinks that boy son body place uniformly of female atmosphere, insulate with macho education, later personality and mental state the development will have a lack.School particularly primary school and junior high school stage, should change to educate a value, allow a student to make open a personality, foster the student's creation and orientation ability."Boy's born nature moves so much, but stipulates that he sits carry regular positive, the handle knob carries on the back at behind listen to lesson.Teacher should the explicit men and women living of personality difference, give boy to morely tolerate."The fathers are taking care of more some school tubes to loosen some network surveys, "the father is in the home education the imperfection of the role" is 1, had sex education problem analyze total 1/4 of vote quantity. The salt street primary school in Chengdu teaches department chief Luo the virtuous English said, the school opened a parent will always the mother come much, father usually with work the favour wait at first in the absence of and the kid's communication exchanges.Now kid mostly only sons and daughters, the parent spoils to make the boy be getting weaker and lacks the consciousness and ability of undertaking the responsibility.In January, this year, the famous education expert, Chinese teenager director, Sun Yun Xiao, and two child psychology doctors from pair in research center unites to release 《rescue boy 》 one book and emphasizes"the father is what boy educated first resources, is also the most important he-man teacher.""Although your possibility is in the other parts of country,Womens Dior Sunglasses it is very difficult for you to keep the kid company every day, if you value a kid, your head quarter finds out some methods, for example delivers a message for kid and makes a phone call and returns to a kid as an intimate friend."Luo virtuous teacher Ying suggests that the father wants to undertake more some responsibilities that the boy educates, much some parents and childrens associate. Chengdu 17 medium since 2006, in the beginning an and high grade one mental lesson and thought moral qualities lesson consciously permeated "sex education".Mental teacher Gou in the school opens expensive tell a reporter, pass a way like this, can guide a boy, girl to form a correct sex approbation, treat a popular cultural effect with the objective angle, don't blindness mimicry.
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